The most common path to feeling stuck runs through avoidance
The Passenger Trap is the most common quadrant in our population - people who feel their life is falling short and feel unable to steer it in a better direction. When we look at which self-limitation archetype drives that quadrant, the answer surprised us.
Controllers - people who fight the wrong battles, who push and override - predominate in the audit population overall. But the single largest group in the Passenger Trap are Avoiders: people who have learned, somewhere along the way, not to show up for the battles at all.
Across the whole population Controllers lead, but step inside the Passenger Trap and Avoiders come out on top.
- Controller
- Avoider
- Pleaser
- Intellectualiser
What does it mean to feel unable to steer your life - not because you're fighting too hard, but because you've learned not to fight at all? We don't have a settled answer. We're curious what you think.