The most common route to feeling stuck is control - but the more revealing pattern is avoidance
The Passenger Trap is the most common quadrant in our population - people who feel their life is falling short and feel unable to steer it in a better direction. When we look at which self-limitation archetype drives that quadrant, the raw numbers and the proportions tell two different stories.
Controllers - people who fight the wrong battles, who push and override - predominate in the audit population overall, and hold a narrow lead by raw count inside the Passenger Trap too. But Avoiders show up here far more often than their overall numbers would predict: people who have learned, somewhere along the way, not to show up for the battles at all.
Controllers hold a narrow lead by raw count in the Passenger Trap, but Avoiders are the archetype most over-represented here relative to their share of the whole population.
- Controller
- Avoider
- Pleaser
- Intellectualiser
What does it mean to feel unable to steer your life - not because you're fighting too hard, but because you've learned not to fight at all? We don't have a settled answer. We're curious what you think.